LOVE/LUST SAND

I was listening to my colleagues and friends discuss love and sex. Questions like orgasm in women, ending a relationship etc arose and we all tried to answer from both the male and female perspective. One guy asked, "why do women get so upset when they realise you aren't gonna marry them? Not every relationship must end in marriage."

"I agree with that school of thought", said my girlfriend, "but why did you begin the relationship in the first place?"

"Probably to use her," was the guy's response.

She gave him a queer look, "so I should be ok with you using me?"

I thought about it a bit and realised that we often blame men for always paying attention to what's between their legs but the ladies aren't any different. I recently learnt about the 'Dick' sand but let me coin mine as 'The Love/Lust Sand'. It is very much like the quicksand. On the outside, it looks ordinary, not until you have walked on it and you have started sinking that you realize it's a quicksand. Same with the ladies. A sweet word and a little attention gets us in. We do not ensure the stability of the foundation before we start building the relationship. When he smiles, we see rose petals. When he holds our hands, we imagine being wrapped in his arms every night. When he licks his lips, we think of his good morning kiss. When the guy is walking away, you are already sinking and like the quicksand, if you panic or throw a tantrum, you sink deeper.

Not every frog deserves your kiss. You will only make all of them feel like a prince meanwhile your prince is yet to arrive and trust me, you don't need to sink before he lifts you up.